I know this is going to sound dreadful but we have a SS for SA.
We have to be there before November 19th but at this moment in time i have convinced myself that i don't want to go.
My husband and children really want to go because they said we would have a better life and although i feel really sad leaving the family this is not the reason i don't want to go.
I have a phobia against snakes and my husband tells me that i probably never would see one but i have this obsession that they come into your house as i have read on some of these posts.
Also house prices are cheaper than the UK but then i hear that everything else is more expensive.........is this the case?
I know i should go there and do a reccie but my daughter is now 14 and should now start studying for her GCSEs.
Can anyone give me any suggestions, am i being selfish and should i go?
I look forward to hearing from you and thank you for your time.