I have been reading this forum as we are at the stage of possibly going back and just wondered if anyone could give advise. We have been here for just over two years and have recently been back for a visit to the UK. I can't tell you how much it mixed me up. We have two young children under 4 and just seeing them with their family broke my heart. Am I doing the right thing taking them away from everyone they love. It is also worse in that my OH loves it here and I could quite easily go back. I havn't settled like he has and I really can't see that changing. Obviously this causes a lot of problems as it is hard when one loves it and the other doesn't. We left excellent jobs in the UK and are worried about employment over there. I feel so excited at the thought of being back home but am also scared stiff it would be a mistake. We are waiting for our 887 Skilled Residency visa to be granted. All the paperwork is in so are just waiting for the rubber stamp. Thankyou for any advise!!