I don't mean this in a nasty way, but I just cant figure out why anyone would stay here if they werent enjoying it? I migrated from South Africa to give my family safety, security and a decent future, so i have zero homesickness. I miss family and friends but not to the point that it makes me miserable because i know there can be NO going back. But for those of you who have ambled over here from the UK, but who sob themselves to sleep every night......why stick it out? What's the point in subjecting yourself to heartache when this has all been a voluntary thing? Life is too short to make decisions that make you unhappy. If your heart is in the UK, then go home! No-one will think any less of you because at least you gave it a bash and you have an experience that no one can take away from you.