Hi everyone, I have not been on his site for a while but feel it is now time to shed some light on our situation.
Myself and my husband emigrated to Adelaide in May 2010, we have permanent residency until Jan 2015. We never really felt settled in the 14 months we were there but maybe we didnt give it long enough. In May of last year we received a phone call to say that my mother in law was terminally ill, this was really hard to deal with being so far away from home and we both felt helpless. After lots of
discussions we decided to return to the UK in August last year, we do not regret returning as my mother in law very sadly
passed away a couple of months ago and Im so glad that we both got to spend precious time with her.
Now,however, we are both missing Adelaide, the weather the lifestyle, and are not that happy here in the UK. My husband
would go back tomorrow, I however am 50/50 at the moment. I just dont think that I could put my parents, family and friends
through the heartache a second time. I have not even approached the subject with any of them, I know you cant live your life for family but I do feel this would be extremely difficult for me.My family are so pleased we are back. Here in the UK we feel like we have fitted back in but are not settled, we talk about oz every day and wonder what we would be doing if we were still there now. Just wondered if anyone else has felt this way after returning to the UK, or if anyone has any advice? This is so difficult!!