That's the trouble though - the OP posted this and then has not visited again???
Is it just me or does anyone else see a pattern???
Unhappy POM............ Let me go on on the forums and whinge.
How about the old adage " a problem shared is a problem halved".
Why not come on when the first doubts and problems start.
I did at one time make the effort at least to help out/ advise/support/mentor those who were finding it difficult.
Some are really thriving here now after a rocky start - and making a great contribution to this FINE country.
Speaking to my Aussie friends about the OP's post they are dumbfounded.
Sorry if I talk straight and sound harsh but .................