This forum is worth its weight in gold espeicially when you read threads like this one . I agree with everything including not being hundred per cent sure its the right thing to do cos I can honestly say I'm not. Also it is more than easy to 'bottle it 'and I think we are all very brave. I agree with the two years bit also,infact I think it would be a good idea for all couples to make a pact on this because then neither can say 'you didn't give it a good enough go'. My main concern however is not me or Phil but the kids they are 7,12 and nearly 16 and its the two elder ones who have a lovely circle of friends here and a good social life that I really pray will be happy and thank us in years to come for changing their lives so drastically.
Keep the honest posts coming cos its what we all need to hear