I am sure Jill is right about her daughter turning 18, I wouldnt think she is stressing asking this question.
Hi all thanks for your assistance and sorry if I seem to be wittering on. Pete we're not using an agent but I do need to clear this 'grey' area up really and think I'm getting there with the answer, we just need to make sure Lucy is dependent on us when we come to apply for PR one way or another and have taken these various suggestions how to do this on board. Anyway we're going on holiday today to the good old East Yorkshire Coast(Hornsea) and I won't have access to a computer. It will give us a bit of a break to mull things over. Hope its sunny and come on Leeds United in the final tomorrow.
once again thanks guys for your help and patience