Just wanted to say a big thankyou to everyone for your words of encouragement. Its nice to know you are not on your own. Its is difficult because it is the decisions you make that impacts on the children. In turn that makes you feel guilty for them being unhappy. We do have to stick it out, as I keep telling the kids even if we went back what do you go back to?. Although you do think you could jump on a plane and make everything alright, it isnt that simple is it. Anyway will stick with it, an hopefully in 12 months time I will be telling you all a completely different story.
Thanks again everyone. It does help being able to talk and listen to other peoples experiences.