Im writing this because i need to just let out how sad i feel that yet again my OH is extremely doubtful about heading over and it may seem that we may be not be coming over afterall. He just cannot see the positives about selling up the house, leaving the job (that he hates, moans about and really doesnt want to be there until he's old and grey)
possibly leaving at least one of our dogs and having the stress of moving to a country that hes never been to.
If we had the money it would be great to a) rent out the house, but we wouldnt have the money to come b) come for a holiday but again we dont have that kind of money so that he could get a good idea about how life is out there. Im in agreement with him that life at least initially wouldnt be easy and yes we would have to find him a job, a house etc but i think that in the end it should be worth it.
I have read some posts recently about 'if they knew now what they knew then' they would have stayed in the UK, that house prices are rising, that unemployment is rising, food, bills but i cant really believe that its not 'better' than the uK with the new Goverment, house prices, bills and geneal life. Im also worried about life for our child growing up in this stressful environment with the gun culture, it scares me. My OH thinkgs that moving to another part of the country may help but i feel just basically depressed thinking of staying here, my job as a nurse isnt safe, whose is?
Despite having a job lined up i feel that im getter weaker in my argument for moving over but again feel very sad that 'our would be life' is never going to happen.
Any thoughts would be happily recieved