We've already had a few family members ask "when's the leaving party?" . We're not having one though, the family that are asking are the ones that we hardly see other than birthdays and xmas and never phone us (other way round).
My hubbys gonna have a night out with the lads from work, and I'll go for a meal with the girls, also a small family meal (like we have every couple of months with family that we actually see), but not going to have a big one.
Enjoy your night