We (me,oh & 3 kids)got up at 5.30am to get the train to london for our meds today.Now before hand i had no worries about it at all.(not that i was looking forward to stripping off to be proded and poked)We were asked to go through and have xrays and do urine samples which all went well and the lady was very nice. My oh was then taken through for his bloods and meds no probs.I was then asked to go through which was where the insults started.Now i am fully aware that i need to loose 2/3 stone but even so i am 5.6 and dress size 16.The doc asked me to stand on the scales and automaticaly told me abruptly "you do realise that your obese and i and it wont look good on your forms.You should realy cut back on the calories,stop the snacks and crisps and chocolate in front of the evening tv.You may have 3 children but i have 1 and im only a few pounds heavier than before being pregnant.Oh i see you don't work so there's no excuse not to have time to exercise."I have only recently given up work to prepare for the move but do go to the gym and walk loads.I also have polycystic ovaries which don't help the weight loss just the gain.I know i should be on a low GI diet and i need to work at that but my worst habit is skipping meals and undereating.I do not sit on my bum eating all day.(If only i had the time)Now before this i was actualy not having a bad day.When my torture was over she gave me another lecture because i don't have the children on regular vitiman supplements.Surly im not the only parent that does'nt dose the kids on these.I try to give the kids a healthy diet and only use pills when they are ill and not getting as much from their food.I have got home feeling so deflated,a bad parent and the size of a mammoth.