told my parents that we will be making the move yesturday, explained about the ss and the fact we are now just waiting fro a co. they are not happy no congrats or anything, i know they will miss the kids but thats one of the reasons we are leaving this country, i want to give my family the best oppertunuties they can have in life, as there is nothing here for them , i work to survive here its a struggle just to keep on top of bills. you would think your parents would understand . the mother inlaw is great she was so pleased for us but my parents could turn a sunny day to a dismal grey one. Never mind . IAM SO BORED OF THE UK GET ME OUT OF HERE !!!!!!!!!!