My 17 yr old son is adamant that my husband and I are doing the worst thing possible in uprooting our family and according to him ruining his life. We plan to come next July and he will be going to university the February after. I am worried that because he is so stubborn and has made up his mind he is going to hate everything about our new life, he will close himself off to making new friends and building up a social life and in the process will make our lives hell to punish us. Has anyone any advice to offer or experience of this ? I'ts really worrying me. Thanks.