Thanks for all the replies
Delighted that there are so many replies and that there are people out there in the same situation as ourselves. Annette, you are correct. 3 year old girl forces us to seek respite in alcohol!!!! Have not been in the rsl club yet so no idea what that one is like. Will organise a morning coffee meet up for the next week or so and post details over weekend and take it from there. There is a whacky warehouse kids club near here somewhere where you can have a coffee and relax whilst the kids play. Would anybody be into meeting up at one of those? Think it costs a few dollars per kid????? Let us know and we will research it in the next 24 hours.
Mick and Dee.