Blimey Hels, you must be wonder woman !!! LOL!
Nina i have 2 older BOYS (13 & 10) not the most helpful or interested species!! it is easier than having another little one but i found as i was 10 years older, the pregnancy harder, and i guess with twins you might! the sleepless nights seem harder this time as well, but i am absolutely loving it and making the most of every second with my little man as i know he will be our last ( i was secretly hoping for twins!)
Also thru some early test results there was some concerns about bubs when i was carrying him so i was VERY closely monitored, there were not leaving anything to chance, i have never experience such thorough care and in the hospital it felt like i had gone private, the facilities and care were outstanding.