So Clarkes family, what lifestyle are you looking for? I really don't mind if Ads is not for you. It's also normal for young people to chafe at the bit to go somewhere different. My younger daughter is off on a GAP year to the uk next week, can't wait to leave here, she was born and brought up in Ads but the bright lights of the Northern hemisphere are beckoning, the romance of living in a bedsit in a grimy London suburb, ferries across the Mersey, chocolate in a Paris Cafe.... etc. My older daughter will also follow for a post Uni gap year after her graduation in March. She certainly at 21 has had a very varied social life whilst at Uni but now needs to go try somewhere else and meet new people etc.... Life anywhere can become humdrum. So what things do you want to do, what are you looking for?