We're on the final laps and have a case officer and weirdly an immense sense of guilt is clouding my celebrations. My dad had a stroke 2 years ago and has been left with some disabilities. Our kids are the only grandchildren on both sides and now it's becoming real, supportive parents are saying how hard it will be and family who haven't supported us still aren't really. I've been so positive about it all til now but I'm panicking about everything and questioning our decision now, is this normal and will it pass? Having said that I've gone ahead and got our medicals booked today!